Not sure what the "BORN AT..." part of the grave is meant to mean. (1911 Census says Edgefield, baptism says Edgefield).

PARENTS:

http://www.deeprootstalltrees.com/Journals/ballachey/d4.htm

22. John Panayoty BALLACHEY was born on April 30, 1824 in Edgefield, Norfolk, England, and died on July 6, 1863 in Edgefield, Norfolk, England aged 39.

John married Louisa Margaret GURNEY, daughter of Elias Thomas Peter GURNEY on September 26, 1845 in Grimsby, Lincoln Co, Ontario, Canada.

Louisa was born in 1825 in Bristol,Gloucestershire, England and died in 1914 aged 89. They had a daughter, Isabel Joanna BALLACHEY born in 1852 in Edgefield, Norfolk, England.
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https://archive.org/stream/manorsofsuffolkn06copiuoft/manorsofsuffolkn06copiuoft_djvu.txt
This Lord Walsingham about 1850 exchanged this manor and the Manor of Washbrook with the Rev. James Tooke Hales, for certain other manors. This James Tooke Hales was the son of James Hales, a solicitor of the city of Norwich, youngest son of Robert Hales, of King's Lynn, by
his wife Ann, daughter and coheir of Sir John Turner, Bart., of Warham Hall. James Hales's wife was Barbara, daughter of John Greene Baseley,
of Norwich. The Rev. James Tooke Hales assumed the additional surname of Tooke on inheriting from his maternal uncle the property of Thompson, in the county of Norfolk. He died unmarried in 1875, and the manor passed to his brother, Baseley Hales-Tooke, who died unmarried in 1892, and was succeeded by his next brother, John Hales Tooke, M.R.C.S.,E., of Copdock and Washbrook, who married 6th Sept. 1846, Sarah, only child of John Clark, of Holt, co. Norfolk, who died 8th Aug. 1895, and 2ndly, 4th Nov. 1895, Isabel J., youngest daughter of John P. Ballachy, of Edgefield Mount, co. Norfolk.